I haven't owned birds before, but some close friends of mine growing up did... I think if you put a blanket over the cage it's supposed to calm them down or make them feel safer. Maybe you could work her into getting used to being in her new home by letting her have periods where her cage is covered that lessen over time... I would say work slowly into the handling thing too, but hopefully she will adjust to that before too long. At least she isn't biting, right? ;)
At 4:34 PM,
I have a bird just like that! She was given to my by my sister, who had acquired two at the same time from someone else who didn't like the noise. I took one and she kept the other. Hers died within a month or two and mine is still kicking. Almost 5 years now I've had her. I wish "sometimes" that she would kick the bucket... only because she is so dang messy. Everyday seeds everywhere! We still can't take her out of the cage either. When we first tried she would bite the kids hard and they are scared of her. I am the only one who can hold her and she knows I'm not scared. She has mellowed in her old age and doesn't bite as hard. Her name is Buttercup and really is a sweet bird. She loves listening to the TV and gripes and complains with me as I hollor at the kids/husband :). She really is a sweet bird but too much of a mess maker. Plenty of patience is all you need. She will learn that you love her and be a best friend to you. You not gonna like the mess though... hahaha! I don't have a mirror in my cage and my bird responds better to us without it. She looks for attention from me. Good luck! and NO I do not want another one. When Buttercup is gone...there won't be another one.
I want to retire!!! I am 42 though and have just been at this job for 7 years.. I am afraid it will be a good long time!!
As for Sweetie well birds are probably the messest of pets. They do love millet spray but they like to spread their seed and everything they have in their cage all over. I agree with Cindy the 1st thing to do is to put plastic under the cage or a huge rug that you can shake--alot! I have had parakeets and from there went to cockatiels and then to a quaker parrot. All my birds talked accept for the keets. They say some of them talk but mine didn't but they did whistle. Unfortunately I taught my birds to cuss and didn't realize you didn't have any control of them when they decided to talk... or who they talked to!
I think maybe it will just take time for her to get used to you and realize you're not going to harm her.
:) Maybe.